The Blowjob – How to give a good head

The English noun fellatio comes from fellatus, which in Latin is the past form of the verb fellare, meaning to suck. The blowjob or fellatio is a wonderful way to pleasure a man. It’s not only a devoted gesture but also a way to get close to your man. While you’re “giving head”, he can fully relax and enjoy. Giving a “BJ” means using your mouth for penis stimulation and while it’s called a blow job – there’s no blowing involved! At the beginning you can use your tongue to circle the head of the penis. Start to suck slightly and then a bit harder. Your hands can caress his testicles. Stimulate them with a soft massage and occasionally suck and kiss them, for alternation.

– “Deep Throat” – is very arousing for a man: Let his penis slide further into your mouth – as far as you can and only as far as you feel comfortable. Then you can either let him take control of the thrusting or you can continue to stimulate him with soft movements. Hereby, try and relax your neck muscles.

– Don’t be too rough – the shaft is a sensitive area and has to be handled with care. Other sensual zones you shouldn’t leave out with your tongue are the perineum (the spot between the testicles and the anus), the frenulum (between the head and the shaft), the tip and the inner thighs.

– Swallow -It’s up to you to decide to swallow or not. Of course it is more erotic for him if you do but it is also completely understandable if you think it’s repulsive. However, if the BJ is only part of your foreplay – then don’t let him cum otherwise he will need a break before sex.

Tips
It can be really hot for guy if you look at him once in a while when going down on him. Try to keep the eye contact – it makes him feel dominant and in control. However don’t look at him the whole time, otherwise he can’t relax completely because he has to look down at you which can be tiring. Variation is key! Experiments have shown that drinking pineapple juice can positively influence the “love juice”, the taste of sperm – why not give it a try? Other ways of changing up the taste is by having a mint or chocolate beforehand. Also sparkling wine or champagne is a secret love booster!

Conclusion
The important thing when giving a blowjob, is for both of you to enjoy it. No one wants to receive oral sex from someone who isn’t into it. And no woman can do a good job, if she is feels forced. If you both like it, oral sex can be amazing and very arousing.